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Holistic Birth Education
Preparing Older Siblings for a New Baby
Welcoming a new baby reshapes family dynamics. Thoughtful preparation helps siblings feel secure, included, and supported through the transition.
Nicole Harber
A new baby affects the entire family system. Siblings often sense change long before they can fully understand it. Preparation focused on connection and honesty supports emotional security.
Understanding Sibling Perspectives
Children experience change differently:
Excitement may coexist with fear or jealousy
Regression is common
Big emotions often show up indirectly
Behavior is communication, not defiance.
Practical Ways to Include Siblings
Inclusion builds confidence:
Age-appropriate explanations
Involvement in preparation
Maintaining familiar routines
Feeling included reduces uncertainty.
Supporting the Post-Birth Transition
After the baby arrives:
One-on-one attention remains important
Boundaries help maintain safety
Reassurance reinforces belonging
Adjustment takes time, not correction.
Walking Beside You
I support families in navigating sibling transitions with compassion, clarity, and realistic expectations.